Symptoms That Your Child May Be Sexually Abused in Kenya

Sexual abuse is a deeply distressing reality that affects many children in Kenya. As a parent or guardian, knowing the signs of abuse can help you take action early and protect your child from further harm. Here are some physical, behavioral, and emotional symptoms that may indicate a child has been sexually abused.

Physical Signs

  • Unexplained pain, bruises, or bleeding in the genital or anal area.

  • Difficulty walking or sitting.

  • Frequent urinary tract infections (UTIs) or sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

  • Torn or stained underwear.

  • Bedwetting or accidents after being potty trained.

Behavioral Signs

  • Sudden fear or anxiety around certain people or places.

  • Unusual knowledge or interest in sexual behaviors inappropriate for their age.

  • Avoiding physical contact or becoming overly clingy.

  • Regressive behaviors such as thumb-sucking or bedwetting.

  • Reluctance to undress, bathe, or change clothes.

  • Running away from home or sudden withdrawal from family and friends.

Emotional Signs

  • Unexplained sadness, depression, or mood swings.

  • Increased anger, aggression, or self-harming behaviors.

  • Low self-esteem and self-blame.

  • Nightmares, trouble sleeping, or sudden fear of the dark.

  • Sudden drop in school performance or loss of interest in activities they once enjoyed.

Verbal Clues

  • A child may talk about a secret with an adult or older child.

  • Describing sexual acts or body parts in a way beyond their understanding.

  • Statements like “I don’t want to go to that place” or “That person makes me feel uncomfortable”.

What to Do If You Suspect Abuse

If you notice these signs in your child, take immediate action:

Stay Calm and Supportive

  • Reassure your child that they are safe and it is not their fault.

  • Listen carefully and avoid pressing for too many details.

Seek Medical Help

  • Take your child to a hospital or clinic for a medical examination.

  • Request Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) if there was a risk of infection.

Report the Abuse

  • Call the Police (999, 112, or 911) or visit the nearest police station.

  • Contact Childline Kenya (116) – a free, 24/7 child protection helpline.

  • Report to the Gender Violence Recovery Centre (GVRC) at Nairobi Women’s Hospital: +254 703 618 472.

  • Get legal support from FIDA Kenya: +254 722 509 760.

Get Counseling and Support

  • Take your child for psychosocial support and therapy.

  • Contact organizations like Usikimye (+254 799 966 679) or The Kenya Red Cross (1199).

Final Thoughts

Recognizing the symptoms of child sexual abuse early can save a life. Trust your instincts, believe your child, and take immediate action. By reporting and seeking support, you can help protect your child and ensure justice is served.